Answer: The "easier" way is either to pursue a homosexual life, or to live in a state of resisting temptation without lifting the temptation, or to continue to try straddling the fence without change. You could also live your life in a state of semi-healing or semi-consciousness.

But the path we have outlined on this web site is different. It is a healing journey toward a place where temptations are lifted (rather than resisted), toward emotional, spiritual and social wholeness, and toward a new, more masculine identity as a man of God. To arrive at this place, no, we doubt that there is any "easier" way. But life is a journey, regardless of which path you are on. You are either on this path or another. As long as you are alive, you are always moving. For us, we chose to move toward wholeness, toward God, and toward greater heterosexual masculine identity.

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